Photo of the Day

I haven’t done a Photo of the Day or Week in awhile. I took these yesterday morning at our new park. The girls LOVE the park, and I love that it is just far enough, that it is a good workout if I walk or run pushing the jog stroller. (That is nearly 70 pounds with two munchkins and the stroller! “Heaby!” as A. would say!)

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Yes, I tried to tame the ‘do with a bow. She kept it in for a good hour and a half or so, but then realized on the way home that it was in, and promptly removed it. The static from the slide and tunnels just makes the hair look even wilder than it already is. But I love her sweet little look (and tongue!).

We are so blessed. Happy Friday, Everyone.

Yes, we are desperate housewives…

My friend Michelle and I went out for a little “Mommy’s Night Out” (well, really it was more like 2 hours out) and I got carded. Yeees, ME! Me who turns 35 in about 2 weeks. Got carded. Totally made my night.

Meanwhile, if anyone sees Andrew from Trader Joe’s hanging out in the parking lot, can you give him a kiss from me? He may have taken my “I could kiss you!” comment seriously….

Sometimes a small appliance is just the thing.

I may be a little odd, but two of my favorite birthday gifts have been small appliances. Before you get all up-in-arms and wondering how anyone could purchase an appliance or household “present” for a birthday gift, let me explain…

My brother-in-law used to work at Williams Sonoma and got a sweet deal on a Kitchen-Aid one year and gave it to me for my birthday. That mixer has moved from San Mateo to Chicago, to Naperville, to Pasadena and now to San Gabriel with me, that is four different moves,  plus it gets used on a weekly (many weeks, much, much more!) basis.  It is perfect when you have baking “helpers” and I can honestly say that I LOVE that mixer. It is the one thing in the kitchen that I can’t imagine doing without. It is also one of those things that I would never buy for myself, no matter how much I really wanted one.

And I have always told everyone it was one of my favorite gifts ever.

Until last week. Now I am in love with another appliance. Not that it can replace the Kitchen-Aid, but it is another “can’t do without” tools in my keeping house repertoire. Allow me to introduce my new love. The Scooba.

A few days after we moved into the new house, I kept noticing (and complaining!) that our feet were soooo dirty. And unless I mopped every room, every day I didn’t see how I was going to keep our feet and the floors clean. Every inch of the 2700sf of our house is either hardwood floor, Spanish tile, or (in the kitchen!) icky linoleum. I had (kind of) joked that I was going to have to buy a Scooba just so we wouldn’t have to wash our feet before bed every night.

And two days later J. said that my Birthday gift had arrived early and I could open it. He seriously picks up on the smallest hints, even if they were not intended as hints. Again, this was one of those things that I would like to have, but would never really spend the money on, and J. also knew that.*

But the thing is freakin’ amazing. I have “Scooba’d” every room in the house…at least once. Some rooms, like the kitchen, get “Scooba’d” almost daily. It is awesome. Pour in some detergent and water, set it down, push a button. It sweeps and mops the entire floor.  The coolest part, and this might be some crazy sickness I have, is opening the tank and seeing all of the dirty water. I mean, we are talking some serious dirt here. It gets it all!

Emma and Addie think the “robot” is so cool. The cats don’t know what to think, and our “little Emma” friend is terrified of it. She won’t use the bathroom when she is at our house because I keep it in the little bathroom to charge when it is not “working,” and she thinks that it is a real “robot.” But, for the most part it has become a part of our family.

And if coveting and drooling over mundane housekeeping tools makes me strange, well, so be it. At least I have clean floors without having to spend my days mopping!

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*Anyone interested in actually buying a Scooba, should check out Amazon’s remanufactured models. That is where J. got it and it works fantastically. It is also half the price of a new model, and he got it even further on sale when it was listed as one of the Friday specials!

Realizations

I often make fun of “dropping off the face of the earth” whenever we go home to Michigan and visit family and friends, but apparently I am living in my own little insulated bubble here. We did not have the TV on yesterday (hooray! how I like it, usually) except for a little Noggin in the morning.

So imagine my surprise when I opened the LA Times this morning and saw the headlines about what had happened yesterday at Virginia Tech. It made me sick to my stomach. I’ve been thinking about it all day. Thinking about how scared those poor kids must have been, sitting barricaded in classrooms and dorms, wondering if it was over. Thinking about what in the world that boy must have been feeling to make him do such a horrendous thing. But most of all thinking about the poor families who were just waiting for the news. Hoping and waiting to hear that their son or daughter wasn’t one of the victims, that they were ok.

I simply cannot imagine being in that position. I just think it would be more than I could bear, more than any parent could bear. And the poor families who didn’t hear good news. Instead they were told that their child was one of the unlucky ones. It just makes me want to take my girls and run far, far away. But I’m not sure that there is a place anymore that would make me feel safe.

It is just so hard when something like this happens. It makes you realize, no matter how much you try to protect your children, there are so many things that are out of your control. Sometimes bad things just happen and there isn’t anything you can do about it.

Snotty noses and “I wub yous”

The week of Emma has officially wrapped up. I do have another child, she isn’t turning four, but she is also doing some pretty amazing stuff. So a few Addie-isms for this dreary Tuesday. (Yep, no sun in sunny California this morning….what is going on??)

Addie has a little cold. It started yesterday, just constantly running nose and very watery eyes. When I try to wipe the water from her eyes and cheeks she looks up at me and says, “cryin? cryin eyes.” She isn’t quite sure why her eyes are “cryin” when she isn’t sad, but it is funny to hear her ask – every single time.

I was a totally unprepared mommy yesterday when her nose started running, I didn’t have a kleenx, wipe, or even a napkin. But I was taking off her dirty sweatshirt, so I wiped her nose on her sleeve. (A few minutes later, in the car I also leaned back and wiped her nose with my sleeve. Mmmm, baby snot. It truly must be love that blinds us to all the gross things we do for our children.) Then last night when we getting ready for bed, she sneezed and before I could get her a kleenx, she leaned down and tried to wipe her nose on her jammies…she almost had her nose to her belly. So now she thinks clothing is merely a tool to wipe snotty noses. I know, I asked for it. Show a monkey something one time…and she’ll remember it for life.

She has become a total chatterbox, too. Running commentary on everything and everyone around. So now I have two. Two girls who NEVER stop talking. Ahhh…as I wrote that, she climbed up on my lap and said “I wub you.” Some things I can hear all day long. Every day. That is one of them…the sweetest sound ever.

We have to skip music class today, which stinks, but A. is cuddly when she is sick, so I’m going to go take advantage of that. More of her exploits later.

Recovery Mode…

So it took days to prepare and a day and half to recover…who knew throwing a little princess party for a 4-year old was going to be so much work.

I know it seemed like more work than it should have been because I have such high expectations for everything. I really wanted the house to be perfectly unpacked and in order (which it wasn’t), I had a picture of a grand castle cake in my mind (which turned into a horrible ordeal and mess), and although we had Uncle Jeff and Wendy and our very close friends here…it was a little hard not having all of our family and friends here. It was our first birthday that the grandparents, Aunt Meesh and the cousins couldn’t attend.

But despite all of this, we had a great time.  Emma was the most gracious, sweetest little Birthday princess, and I was very proud of her. And I think everyone else had a good time, too. I just put up all of the birthday pics on flickr – including ones that Em took with her new little FisherPrice digital camera. (A Birthday gift from Nena and Uncle Jeff!)

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I think it just sunk in. She is really four. Wow.

Entourage

E. has always had “Bear” and “Blankie.” Yes, both. They are both equally loved and both must be present for sleeping and cuddling with. As she has gotten older, both pretty much stay in her bed or on the sofa during the day. She definitely still *needs* to sleep with them, but they don’t go everywhere with her like they once used to. We had searched for a “back-up” bear, bear #2, and finally found an exact replica – but he has never made the cut. Even though he is perfectly clean, not a ratty, nappy spot of fur on him, E. calls him “Icky Bear” and the original Bear is otherwise known as “Clean Bear.” (I know. But it is 3-year old logic. Can’t argue with it.) A while back, “Icky Bear” had been banished to the bottom of the stuffed animal pile in the playroom. Never to be seen from again.

But I think having a lovey (or two!) has helped E. self-soothe, sleep better, and it definitely helps her feel secure, so I am all for it. I’m sure I would feel differently if we were facing preschool and she refused to leave them home, but thankfully we are not in that position.

So when A. latched onto the sweet little teddy that E. picked out for her and brought to the hospital when they met for the first time, I was so excited. Not only that she would hopefully have a little security lovey, but that it happened to be the Bear E. gave her? That is too sweet.

But, Bear has assembled quite the entourage. Bear is now accompanied by Baby (yes, she is always naked, I have no idea where her clothes have run off to), Blankie (the quilt Jeff and Wendy gave her when she was born) and Kitty (the sorriest excuse for a stuffed kitten you have ever seen – he looks like he is missing about 80 percent of his stuffing).

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The entourage must ALL be present and accounted for anytime we are going to sleep, whether it is for the night or just a nap. And when you go in to get A. up, the entire entourage must accompany her to the next destination, as well. It is getting a big much, let me tell you. Not only do I haul around 24 pounds of real baby, but another 10 pounds of accessories for the cute real baby. I can’t remember now how I got E. to leave Bear and Blankie home. But I need to do some creative coaxing, because we are doomed to losing one of Addie’s “fantastic four” and then we are all in trouble. She left Bear at the gym one day and we tried to do naptime with Emma’s “Icky Bear” (come to think of it, that might be the last time I saw poor ‘ol Icky Bear) and it just was not happening. So I drove back to the gym to rescue Bear so we could all get to sleep that night.

When I put A. to bed I always sing her this little “Good Night Addie” song. And now, yes, you guessed it. I also have to sing four new verses: “Good Night Bear,” “Good Night Blankie,” “Good Night Baby” and “Good Night Kitty.” A. thinks this is great fun and if I try to skip over one, she will hold the excluded toy up and say “Nyt, Nyt (fill-in-the-blank)!” (Have I mentioned that she is a little too smart for her own good?)

Just as I was ready to scream “Good Night Already!” and was closing her door last night, I hear her sweet little voice-

“Nyt, Nyt Mommy, Nyt Nyt Behar, Nyt Nyt Bay-bee, Nyt Nyt Bankie, Nyt Nyt Ki-yee….”

It was in the same tune of the song I sing to her, but she kind of threw all of the characters into one verse. It was so perfectly adorable.

That I was first in that list, totally makes up for the constant vigil in trying to keep all of the entourage safe, loved and in one place.

P.S. My apologies to anyone who thought that this post was about the AWESOME show on HBO also called Entourage. I am quite addicted to the show, by the way. And the first episode of the new season last week was great. So nice to have it back. I think it will have to stand in for the Sopranos when it is finally done in a few more episodes. I will certainly miss the Sopranos, but enough is enough. I try to wait ever so patiently and get so little for all of my waiting. Don’t they know I have serious Mommy Brain and can’t remember what happened last season when it was really on a year and a half ago??

They say the darndest things

Things heard around here this week….

E: Mama, when I am a spider…(pause)
M: Um, yes?
E: When I am a spider, I will wrap bugs up with my web and then I will suck their blood!
M: Um, okay…

(Maybe we need to lay off the Charlotte’s Web, which is our current DVD of choice?)

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A: Oh no! (As she is picking her sprawled little body up off the floor.)
M: You ok, Addie?
A: I ok, Mama. I TUFF!

(And if A. saying that, with her shoulders thrown back looking all proud, doesn’t bring tears to my eyes, I don’t know what will. She is “tough,” but I just want her to need a little cuddling….sometimes!)

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E: Daddy, boys have penises!
D: Yep.
E: And girls have zucchinis!
D: Not exactly…

(I, unfortunately, heard this one secondhand through J.  But I would have paid big bucks to hear him explaining to E. what exactly girls do have, though! Or to see how he kept a straight face after that one…)