{"id":70,"date":"2006-12-14T18:55:20","date_gmt":"2006-12-15T02:55:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2006\/12\/14\/why-why-why\/"},"modified":"2006-12-14T18:55:20","modified_gmt":"2006-12-15T02:55:20","slug":"why-why-why","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/?p=70","title":{"rendered":"Why, why, why."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>That seems to be the only word our little precocious three (and a half!) year old knows these days.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn&#8217;t resist this shirt when I found it because it is all I have heard for the last year.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"> <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.files.wordpress.com\/2006\/12\/why2.jpg\" title=\"Why, why, why.\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.files.wordpress.com\/2006\/12\/why2.jpg\" alt=\"Why, why, why.\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>God love her, but I have to be really careful in what I say &#8211; because she will remember EVERYTHING and repeat it at a later date! I think I have written about her crazy good memory before (it is by far ten times better than mine), but it continues to astound me. She is a freakin&#8217; sponge. I keep thinking sooner or later she is going to become saturated, right? She&#8217;ll maybe start to either forget some things or just not be able to absorb any more&#8230;.but it doesn&#8217;t seem to be happening.<\/p>\n<p>Most of her questions lately revolve around Christmas.<br \/>\n&#8220;Why do the ladies have to  stand and ring-ring the little bell?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Why do they want people to put moneys in the bucket?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Why do they help those people?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Why are they poor?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Why won&#8217;t Santa just bring those peoples presents?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Why doesn&#8217;t Joseph ride on his own donkey?&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8220;Why don&#8217;t they go to the hospital to have their baby?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And on, and on&#8230;.pretty much anything she sees, she has a question about.<\/p>\n<p>I do love her curiosity. It is one of the truly great perks of parenting, just to be able to witness that excitement for learning on a daily basis.  But it worries me that I still haven&#8217;t found a good class or preschool for her. I mean, am I really enough for her everyday? And on my &#8220;off&#8221; days when I don&#8217;t act like I expect her to act, how can I teach her to &#8220;do as I say, not as I do?&#8221; I&#8217;m sure it is (well, I hope it is &#8211; I can&#8217;t be alone here!) one of the great parenting dilemmas.  I just can&#8217;t help but imagine what she would soak up with if she was in a learning environment and exposed to other people.<\/p>\n<p>The &#8220;finding a school&#8221; task has been officially moved to the top of my list.  Um&#8230;and also, stop acting like I don&#8217;t want her to act. That is probably pretty important, too.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t forget you have til midnite tomorrow (PST) to get your Elmo story in&#8230;we will pick the winner on Saturday &#8211; and have plenty of time to get Elmo to his new owner in time for Christmas. I&#8217;ll share our &#8220;funny&#8221; Christmas story tomorrow&#8230;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>That seems to be the only word our little precocious three (and a half!) year old knows these days. I couldn&#8217;t resist this shirt when I found it because it is all I have heard for the last year. God &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/?p=70\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[32,34,54,55,120],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-70","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-christmas","category-contest","category-elmo","category-emma","category-parenting"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/psMOS-18","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=70"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=70"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=70"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=70"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}