{"id":523,"date":"2007-09-14T14:26:44","date_gmt":"2007-09-14T22:26:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2007\/09\/14\/no-tears-this-time-around\/"},"modified":"2007-09-14T14:26:44","modified_gmt":"2007-09-14T22:26:44","slug":"no-tears-this-time-around","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/?p=523","title":{"rendered":"No tears this time around&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;for either Em or Mommy.<\/p>\n<p>J., Addie and I just dropped Em off for her first official day of preschool.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photo_zoom.gne?id=1383416694&amp;size=l\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"preschooler.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.files.wordpress.com\/2007\/09\/preschooler.jpg\" alt=\"preschooler.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>She and I went to meet her teachers on Tuesday evening and to see her room. Em got very anxious and worried because there is <em><strong>another<\/strong><\/em> Emma in her classroom.  I told her that there would probably always be another Emma in her class from now until she graduates, it, alas, is a very popular name. I think she was a little tired, and a little overwhelmed, and a little shy (I know?!), but when one of her teachers asked Em if she was excited she just looked very, very distressed. So I suggested maybe the class could call our Em, &#8220;Emma Grace&#8221; and the other little girl just &#8220;Emma.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Em&#8217;s teacher thought that would work and it seemed to pacify Em, too.<\/p>\n<p>Then today when we got to class, her teacher said, &#8220;Now are we going to call you Emma or Emma Grace?&#8221; (I was very impressed that she even remembered our exchange amidst all of the chaos and other parents and students from the other night.) Em said, &#8220;I think Emma Grace.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And that was it. She went tearing around the room, exploring and was completely happy to say goodbye and start her school career.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photo_zoom.gne?id=1383414988&amp;size=l\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"yeah_school.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.files.wordpress.com\/2007\/09\/yeah_school.jpg\" alt=\"yeah_school.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I have such a good feeling about <strong>both<\/strong> of her teachers. I think she is in for a fantastic year and I&#8217;m so excited for her.<\/p>\n<p>When I asked her at lunch if she was excited to go to school, she said, &#8220;Yes! Mama, remember when we met my teacher Miss Marie Rose? And she asked if I could give her a hug? I liked that hug. I liked the way she felt.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And I liked the way I felt when I walked out of the school, a Mommy of an official &#8220;preschooler.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;for either Em or Mommy. J., Addie and I just dropped Em off for her first official day of preschool. She and I went to meet her teachers on Tuesday evening and to see her room. 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