{"id":205,"date":"2007-03-23T13:47:58","date_gmt":"2007-03-23T21:47:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2007\/03\/23\/real-moms\/"},"modified":"2007-03-23T13:47:58","modified_gmt":"2007-03-23T21:47:58","slug":"real-moms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/?p=205","title":{"rendered":"Real Moms"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have a few blogs that I read every single day, and my bloglines (thanks, honey for fixing it!) has a running tally of 95 blogs that I check at least weekly. I am just amazed by all of the good reading material out there.\u00a0 There are so many mommy blogs that I can commiserate with; trashy gossip blogs that I can escape reality with for a little bit; and then just some bloggers who make me laugh my butt off. It is inspiring and helpful in my own writing to continually be &#8220;trolling&#8221; for new stuff. It&#8217;s tough work to keep you people entertained!<\/p>\n<p>Lately I have been following a &#8220;meme&#8221; called &#8220;Real Moms.&#8221; A &#8220;meme&#8221; (rhymes with &#8220;dream&#8221;) is kind of like those emails with the &#8220;get to know your friends&#8221; questions that you answer and send around. In the blogosphere, bloggers &#8220;tag&#8221; others with a &#8220;meme&#8221; and you are supposed to answer the questions, make the list, etc.<\/p>\n<p>So anyhow, I&#8217;ve been following this &#8220;Real Moms&#8221; one and have seen some pretty fun ones. You are supposed to take a picture and finish the sentence &#8220;Real moms&#8230;.&#8221;\u00a0 I haven&#8217;t been able to come up with a really creative or original one yet &#8211; so I haven&#8217;t participated.\u00a0 But most of them are really funny and as I clicked on one link last night, I was expecting to get another of these little glimpses into our &#8220;real mom&#8221; lives. Instead I was hit in the stomach with a post so amazingly beautiful and poignant and heart-wrenching all at the same time&#8230;I still can&#8217;t look at it or think about it without crying.<\/p>\n<p>I can&#8217;t even begin to imagine or pretend to know what it feels like to lose a child, just thinking of the mere possibility cripples me. I think I would just completely shut down. But, I also think that this is a beautiful tribute and far better attempt at anything I could ever hope to write.<\/p>\n<p>So, don&#8217;t say I didn&#8217;t warn you &#8211; just make sure you have a minute to yourself to really read this entry, and another minute to really compose yourself afterward.\u00a0 Ready? Go read <a href=\"http:\/\/cribchronicles.com\/?p=91\" target=\"_blank\">Bonnie&#8217;s meme<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>And, then go hug your children. Tight. 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