{"id":1850,"date":"2009-08-24T01:00:11","date_gmt":"2009-08-24T08:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/?p=1850"},"modified":"2009-08-24T07:56:34","modified_gmt":"2009-08-24T14:56:34","slug":"you-might-be-a-big-fish-in-a-little-pond","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/?p=1850","title":{"rendered":"You Might Be A Big Fish In A Little Pond."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Inevitably every time we get into the car Addie will pipe up with, <em>&#8220;Can you play <strong>You might be a big fish, in a little po-oond?<\/strong>&#8221; <\/em>(Otherwise known as <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=IN6EG8pxuFA\" target=\"_blank\"><em><strong>Lost<\/strong><\/em><\/a>, by Coldplay.)<\/p>\n<p>She loves that song and I love to hear her sing it, so I gladly turn it on and feed her obsession.<\/p>\n<p>That exact phrase popped into my head when I opened up this photo last week. She really is struggling right now with wanting to be a <strong>big fish<\/strong>, but also wanting to be treated like the <strong>baby fish<\/strong> in the family, too.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a title=\"Big fish by Voris, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/voris\/3850716687\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm3.static.flickr.com\/2638\/3850716687_77118f4539_b.jpg\" alt=\"Big fish\" width=\"500\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">And no, she didn&#8217;t really test these fins in the water. She was actually very <em>un-fishlike<\/em> while we were at Nana and Papa&#8217;s. Emma more than made up for Addie, though. Em didn&#8217;t seem to mind the chilly water one bit, and I was forced to drag out of the pool every night. (Remind you of someone else years ago, Mom and Dad?)<\/p>\n<p>I think that Nana and Papa don&#8217;t believe Addie really can swim, however, they do finally see that she is <em><strong>very<\/strong><\/em> stubborn.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">She will swim when she feels like it. And not a minute sooner.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/traceyclark.squarespace.com\/blog\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/i95.photobucket.com\/albums\/l134\/maypapers\/bsmstar140button.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"bsm\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Inevitably every time we get into the car Addie will pipe up with, &#8220;Can you play You might be a big fish, in a little po-oond?&#8221; (Otherwise known as Lost, by Coldplay.) She loves that song and I love to &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/?p=1850\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1850","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-addison","category-best-shot-monday"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/psMOS-tQ","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1850"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1850"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1850\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1864,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1850\/revisions\/1864"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1850"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1850"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1850"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}