{"id":1212,"date":"2009-01-04T23:11:23","date_gmt":"2009-01-05T07:11:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/?p=2290"},"modified":"2009-01-04T23:11:23","modified_gmt":"2009-01-05T07:11:23","slug":"new-resolutions-a-best-shot-monday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/?p=1212","title":{"rendered":"New Resolutions &amp; A Best Shot Monday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So&#8230;.Hi! And Happy New Year! And all that other stuff.<\/p>\n<p>I know it has been awhile and I have had very good intentions to write about all of the holiday fun we have had over the past few weeks. I&#8217;ve got photos from our Nutcracker date, Christmas Eve, THE pageant, Christmas morning, our vacation to Michigan &#8211; all waiting to be edited and posted.<\/p>\n<p>And I also had planned a 2008 year-end review, it was kind of a happening year! We traveled to <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2008\/02\/20\/hawaii-first-half-of-the-trip\/\" target=\"_blank\">some<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2008\/02\/23\/hawaii-vacation-part-deux\/\" target=\"_blank\">fun<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2008\/07\/15\/vacation-recap-in-1000-words-and-photos-or-less\/\" target=\"_blank\">places<\/a>. I ran my <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2008\/03\/08\/no-longer-a-tri-virgin\/\" target=\"_blank\">first<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2008\/06\/15\/it-is-starting-to-sink-in\/\" target=\"_blank\">second<\/a> triathalons.\u00a0 Em had a <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2008\/04\/09\/five-at-last-five-at-last-thank-god-you-are-five-at-last\/\" target=\"_blank\">milestone<\/a> birthday, Addie turned &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/09\/an-addison-rose-by-any-other-name\/\" target=\"_blank\">free<\/a>!&#8221; and both of them had <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2008\/09\/04\/ems-first-day-in-1000-words-or-less\/\" target=\"_blank\">first<\/a> days of school.<\/p>\n<p>As far as my resolutions from <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.wordpress.com\/2007\/12\/30\/new-year-resolutions-the-five-year-plan\/\" target=\"_blank\">last year<\/a>&#8230;well, some of them got crossed off, and a few are just perpetually going to be on my list.<\/p>\n<p>But as I have had a few days to reflect on everything &#8211; I have decided that my biggest &#8220;to do&#8221; for 2009 is to just be a little nicer to myself.<\/p>\n<p>Give myself a break.<\/p>\n<p>I need to realize that (on the inside and out) I&#8217;m a pretty good person, and I deserve a little break once in awhile. I deserve to do stuff because I want to, not because I feel like I have to. I deserve to stop obsessing over things I cannot change and help shape the lives of those I can help change. (Including these five little miracles &#8211; Em, Ad and their three cousins!)<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"allofkids.jpg by Voris, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/voris\/3169926752\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3119\/3169926752_6dd09a47f4_b.jpg\" alt=\"allofkids.jpg\" width=\"490\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And most of all, I <span style=\"text-decoration:line-through;\">deserve<\/span> owe it to myself to step away from the computer so that I don&#8217;t miss amazing moments like this &#8211; my Best Shot for this first Monday of 2009!<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"allkids_2.jpg by Voris, on Flickr\" href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/voris\/3169924286\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/farm4.static.flickr.com\/3262\/3169924286_6d6ea0ec87_b.jpg\" alt=\"allkids_2.jpg\" width=\"490\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m going to print this and put it in as many rooms of my house as I can as a constant reminder. I&#8217;m living for moments like these not to make other people happy, but to make myself happy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So&#8230;.Hi! And Happy New Year! And all that other stuff. I know it has been awhile and I have had very good intentions to write about all of the holiday fun we have had over the past few weeks. I&#8217;ve &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/?p=1212\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1212","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-best-shot-monday"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/psMOS-jy","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1212"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1212"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1212\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1212"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1212"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/barelycontrolledchaos.com\/wordpress\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1212"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}